Not trying to be sexist. Make a choice – pass along whichever graphic you think is appropriate. Better yet, grab them both and send them out via your social media accounts.
Refine and polish each of the steps in your system or process. Make each step simple and pure, and you can re-build it into a complex system that works.
You know, I put a lot of work into making and posting these graphics. Like them or hate them, I hope you’re at least reacting to them!